{"id":1450,"date":"2021-05-11T14:49:10","date_gmt":"2021-05-11T14:49:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ael-albania.com\/?p=1450"},"modified":"2021-05-12T15:04:10","modified_gmt":"2021-05-12T15:04:10","slug":"femijet-dhe-rrjetet-sociale-jeta-larg-celularit-punonjese-sociale-evisa-sulejmani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ael-albania.com\/en\/femijet-dhe-rrjetet-sociale-jeta-larg-celularit-punonjese-sociale-evisa-sulejmani\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe rrjetet sociale, jeta larg celularit. (shkrim nga Evisa Sulejmani – Punonj\u00ebse Sociale)"},"content":{"rendered":"
F<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>mij<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>t dhe rrjetet sociale, jeta larg celularit.<\/strong><\/p>\n Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm s\u00eb fundmi q\u00eb kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re nj\u00eb p\u00ebrdorim t\u00eb shtuar nga ana e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb celularit apo telefonave \u2018\u2019smart\u2019\u2019 dhe rrjeteve sociale n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet tyre.<\/p>\n Nisur nga puna si punonj\u00ebse sociale me f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe adoleshent\u00eb, gjithashtu dhe nga q\u00ebndrimi m\u00eb personal n\u00eb rol prind\u00ebror p\u00ebrpara mbes\u00ebs sime, u shtyva t\u00eb hulumotja m\u00eb tej rreth shpesht\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrhapjes s\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb celularit dhe rrjeteve sociale nga kjo grupmosh\u00eb e mitur.<\/p>\n Studimi i SellCell ishte m\u00eb godit\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n Si kushdo i angazhuar n\u00eb rolet e tij n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, e kisha perceptuar p\u00ebrdorimin e shtuar deri n\u00eb abuzim t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre pajisjeve dhe t\u00eb bot\u00ebs virtuale q\u00eb ato p\u00ebrcjellin, por SellCell e sjell situat\u00ebn t\u00eb p\u00ebrkthyer n\u00eb shifra t\u00eb zhveshura dhe trondit\u00ebse.<\/p>\n SellCell ka vendosur t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjet disa prej pyetjeve kryesore rreth asaj se si f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebrdorin telefonat celular\u00eb.<\/p>\n – Ata kan\u00eb hulumtuar mbi situatat ku prind\u00ebrit zakonisht u blejn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve telefonin celular t\u00eb par\u00eb dhe arsyet pas k\u00ebtij veprimi.<\/p>\n – Fal\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, kan\u00eb arritur t\u00eb zbulojn\u00eb se sa koh\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb kalojn\u00eb mesatarisht f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb lidhur pas celularit dhe n\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit kontrollojn\u00eb aktivitetin e tyre n\u00eb k\u00ebto pajisje.<\/p>\n – Gjithashtu, SellCell ka zbuluar se \u00e7far\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb celular\u00ebt e tyre dhe p\u00ebrshtatshm\u00ebrin\u00eb me mosh\u00ebn.<\/p>\n – A po monitorojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit nga af\u00ebr p\u00ebrdorimin e celular\u00ebve nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre dhe t\u00eb rrjeteve sociale n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet tij?<\/p>\n Ja disa nga dep<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>rtimet e zbuluara m<\/strong>\u00eb <\/strong>posht<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>:<\/strong><\/p>\n SellCell anketoi 1135 prind\u00ebr n\u00eb SHBA me f\u00ebmij\u00eb mes mosh\u00ebs 4 dhe 14 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n Sondazhi n\u00eb fjal\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kryer n\u00eb Korrik, 2019. (Shikoni m\u00eb posht\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb informacion n\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat dhe metodologjin\u00eb)<\/p>\n – A po b\u00ebhen f\u00ebmij\u00ebt t\u00eb varur nga celular\u00ebt?<\/p>\n 42% e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve po kalojn\u00eb 30+ or\u00eb n\u00eb jav\u00eb n\u00eb celular\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n – A jan\u00eb telefonat \u2018Koha e k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb fajshme\u2019 p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit?<\/p>\n 4 n\u00eb 10 prind\u00ebr i lejojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin telefona n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mund t\u00eb \u2018G\u00ebzojn\u00eb paqe e qet\u00ebsi\u2019.<\/p>\n – 40% e prind\u00ebrve e pranojn\u00eb q\u00eb i lejojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin celular\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i lejuar vetes pak pushim.<\/p>\n – 57% e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve kryesisht p\u00ebrdorin telefonin e tyre p\u00ebr loj\u00ebra.<\/p>\n – Gati 70% e prind\u00ebrve mendojn\u00eb se p\u00ebrdorimi i telefon\u00ebve celular\u00eb ka nj\u00eb efekt pozitiv n\u00eb zhvillimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre (68%)<\/p>\n – 28% e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebrdorin s\u00eb pari nj\u00eb celular n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 4 vje\u00e7 ose m\u00eb pak<\/p>\n – 12% e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebrdorin s\u00eb pari nj\u00eb telefon midis mosh\u00ebs 1-2 vje\u00e7<\/p>\n – 14% e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve nuk p\u00ebrdornin celular deri sa t\u00eb ishin adoleshent\u00eb (13-16%)<\/p>\n Sa i takon f<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>mij<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>ve e t<\/strong>\u00eb <\/strong>rinjve<\/strong>, nisur nga k\u00ebto gjetje, mund t\u00eb nxjerrim disa parashikime q\u00eb duket se paraprijn\u00eb metamorfoz\u00ebn e frikshme t\u00eb brezit m\u00eb t\u00eb ri:<\/p>\n A \u00ebsht\u00eb ky nj\u00eb komb i teknik\u00ebve t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl?<\/p>\n Po Shqip\u00ebria, a \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq nj\u00eb vend i till\u00eb?<\/p>\n A jemi duke zhvilluar nj\u00eb komb t\u00eb \u2018Toddler Techies\u2019 apo \u2018Belligerent Bambinos\u2019?<\/p>\n – 12% e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebrdorin s\u00eb pari nj\u00eb telefon midis mosh\u00ebs 1-2 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n – 4 n\u00eb 10 f\u00ebmij\u00eb amerikan\u00eb jan\u00eb 6 vje\u00e7 ose m\u00eb pak kur p\u00ebrdorin p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb nj\u00eb celular (40%)<\/p>\n – 65% e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve para-adoleshent\u00eb, n\u00ebn mosh\u00ebn 13 vje\u00e7 kan\u00eb celular t\u00eb tyrin.<\/p>\n Prind\u00ebrit jan\u00eb \u2018\u2019p\u00ebrgjues\u2019\u2019 t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre pajisjeve.<\/p>\n Sa i takon prind<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>rve:<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo gjetje e fundit mbi sjelljen e prind\u00ebrve p\u00ebrball\u00eb ketij fenomeni, a duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb di\u00e7ka qet\u00ebsuese q\u00eb na siguron ne si punonj\u00ebs social\u00eb q\u00eb situata \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn kontroll nga ana e tyre apo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr simptom\u00eb e gjendjes s\u00eb ankthit dhe paranoj\u00ebs te prind\u00ebrit?<\/p>\n Ky studim i SellCell m\u00eb nxiti t\u00eb ideoj nj\u00eb terapi n\u00eb grup me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt punoj.<\/p>\n Nisur nga sjellja e tyre ndaj celularit, provuam disa dit\u00eb spastrim apo \u2018\u2019detox\u2019\u2019 teknologjik, duke filluar nga p\u00ebrdorimi me koh\u00eb t\u00eb limituar t\u00eb celularit dhe rrjeteve sociale brenda nj\u00eb dite deri edhe te shmangia e plot\u00eb e p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n S\u00eb pari u v\u00ebrejt nje rezistenc\u00eb e natyrshme e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u00eb thyer rutin\u00ebn e tyre.<\/p>\n Di\u00e7ka e till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pritshme, ndaj kisha parashikuar nj\u00eb seri loj\u00ebrash mendore dhe aktivitetesh arg\u00ebtuese p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbushur hendekun e madh q\u00eb linte zhdukja e celularit.<\/p>\n Kjo nxiti dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrthort\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u2019i rikthehej v\u00ebmendja dhe d\u00ebshira ndaj loj\u00ebrave m\u00eb t\u00eb dashura e zhvilluese p\u00ebr to, q\u00eb nga loj\u00ebrat n\u00eb grup, socializimi, dialogu, bashk\u00ebpunimi, e deri te p\u00ebrkushtimi m\u00eb individual n\u00eb nj\u00eb flete vizatimi.<\/p>\n Si p<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>rfundim,<\/strong> mbetet konflikti dhe zgjidhja po ashtu te rutina e re q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb guxojn\u00eb sa m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u2019ia prezantojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, n\u00eb sugjerimin tim.<\/p>\n Rutina k\u00ebrkon pak vendosm\u00ebri n\u00eb momentin e prezantimit te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe pritet t\u00eb hasi n\u00eb rezistenc\u00eb e rebelim.<\/p>\n \u00cbsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore n\u00eb rolin e prind\u00ebrve q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhen bashk\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vendim t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre dhe ta ndjekin prezantimin e rutin\u00ebs me vijueshm\u00ebri t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n – Gjithashtu, do t\u00eb sugjeroja dhe disa dit\u00eb m\u00eb elastike, thuajse dit\u00eb \u2018\u2019pushimi\u2019\u2019 ndaj rregullit t\u00eb ri t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb celular\u00ebve dhe rrjeteve sociale.<\/p>\n Kjo do t\u00eb rriste reagimin pozitiv t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, bashk\u00ebpunimin e tyre dhe reflektimin mbi m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb reja t\u00eb kalimit t\u00eb koh\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Do t\u00eb shmangte nga ana tjet\u00ebr \u2018\u2019withdrawal symtomps\u2019\u2019 duke siguruar k\u00ebshtu vijim\u00ebsin\u00eb e disiplin\u00ebs s\u00eb re dhe p\u00ebrfundimisht z\u00ebvend\u00ebsimin e rutin\u00ebs s\u00eb vjet\u00ebr me at\u00eb t\u00eb ren\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshmen.<\/p>\n – N<\/strong>\u00eb <\/strong>terma afatgjat<\/strong>\u00eb<\/strong>,<\/strong> ky bashk\u00ebpunim mes prind\u00ebrve dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre e forcon marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tyre dhe p\u00ebrcjell nj\u00eb model m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb prind\u00ebrimi.<\/p>\n – F\u00ebmij\u00ebt zhvillojn\u00eb sjellje m\u00eb empatike dhe sociale ndaj nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, zgjerohet spektri i kuptueshm\u00ebris\u00eb emocionale, si ndaj vetes, ashtu dhe ndaj tjetrit dhe rritet p\u00ebrgjigjja emocionale e tyre.<\/p>\n – F\u00ebmij\u00ebt b\u00ebhen m\u00eb pranues ndaj ndryshimeve, m\u00eb reagues ndaj tyre duke u p\u00ebrshtatur me zhd\u00ebrvjellt\u00ebsi, rriten n\u00eb kreativitet dhe b\u00ebhen m\u00eb t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb prodhojn\u00eb zgjidhje origjinale ndaj problemeve e sfidave.<\/p>\n – Shmanget var\u00ebsia ndaj rrjeteve sociale dhe shmanget zhvillimi i nj\u00eb personaliteti me prirje adiktive (var\u00ebsie), mbi t\u00eb gjitha.<\/p>\n Duke filluar q\u00eb nga pozicionimi im m\u00eb personal n\u00eb rol prind\u00ebror para mbes\u00ebs sime t\u00eb vog\u00ebl e deri te puna dhe misioni im si punonj\u00ebse sociale, k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul se nuk ka asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb humbur.<\/p>\n P\u00ebrkundrazi, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb humbur: gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e tyre.<\/p>\n Sjellja jon\u00eb duhet t\u00eb modelohet sa m\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndikuar pozitivisht at\u00eb t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve tan\u00eb.<\/p>\n Koha e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb nisur me k\u00ebto ndryshime \u00ebsht\u00eb sa m\u00eb par\u00eb!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" F\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe rrjetet sociale, jeta larg celularit. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm s\u00eb fundmi q\u00eb kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re nj\u00eb p\u00ebrdorim t\u00eb shtuar nga ana e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb celularit apo telefonave \u2018\u2019smart\u2019\u2019 dhe rrjeteve sociale n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet tyre. Nisur nga puna si punonj\u00ebse sociale me f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe adoleshent\u00eb, gjithashtu…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1451,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[21,20],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n\n